There are three qualities that brings me to attention when meeting a new person. Those are:
1. Vision & Preparedness. Since most of us are not in school anymore, this applies to something much more than just keeping up with their studies daily. More like how determined they are about the future. What sort of career path they are taking at a moment, and are they keep on improving themselves? What are their goals? Do they have a vision for the future?
2. Social/People skills. Are they fun? Does conversation between them and me just flow like rainfall? How do they maintain their social relations? Can they get along with most of my friends? Such things which tell whether he or she is outgoing person or not.
3. Last but probably greatest of all. Degree of purity in soul. Good in a person. Nothing can stand before love, and a parent will do anything for anything for a child. But when considering human interaction, there must be respect and trust. This also includes humbleness and how caring he or she is. Without them, there can be no true, meaningful relationship.
Over last 25 years, I have met a lot of people, and there are so many nice people around me, full of great qualities, though not many possess all three. Often it becomes problematic, and there are times I wish for more people with all three attributes around me. However, imperfection is the beauty of humankind, though I crave myself to become more perfect being everyday. Even if I found a person who seems all perfect, I am sure that relationship will lack other aspects I am unaware of at the moment, I will run into other issues, such as me envying him or her. Anyways, I am so satisfied of my life that there are so many great and nice people around me already, and rather than looking out to meet new people, I will kinda look back and spend more time this year with people that are around me at the moment.
The message I intended to deliver here was: whenever there comes a problem in human relations, accept people around you as way they are, and appreciate for what is good in them. Seems like it went a little off-topic as I was completing a post.
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